The M3 Menopause Framework
The evidence, experience, and expertise behind my work
The M3 Menopause Framework
The evidence, experience, and expertise behind my work
M3 is an evidence‑informed, whole‑person framework that translates your goals into practical health plans and provides a robust structure for workplace workshops. It brings together three core pillars of menopausal health - Movement, Mindset, and Metabolism - because lasting results are never driven by one factor alone. The M3 framework underpins my one-to-one menopause coaching for individuals and my workplace menopause workshops for organisations.
The M3 Pillars
Movement is vital in menopause because it supports mood, energy, strength and long-term health when your body needs it most. Some women are already active and looking to enhance their existing training programmes. Others find it hard to get started and feel overwhelmed with conflicting advice. I’m sensitive to how women may feel and work with you to create bespoke plans tailored to your personal circumstances. These could be short exercise ‘snacks’ to do at home, or more advanced programmes for the more experienced. Either way, movement plans draw on cutting‑edge science to optimise development with routines designed to be done in as little time as possible, maximising your ‘bang for buck.'
Most of the time when health programmes don’t work, it’s because our psychology gets in the way. We don’t learn new habits overnight and overcoming bad habits isn’t easy. Throw in brain fog, low energy and quite possibly some shrinking self-belief, and we can be defeated before we even start. I recognise that we need to ‘buy-into’ new habits and will help you do this. I believe that superficial strategies can be disempowering, and even toxic, so I use a scaffolded approach to support understanding of core mental blocks before using performance psychology techniques. Examples include:
Real time stress management techniques
Understanding root causes and managing fear of failure, perfectionism, imposter syndrome, self-doubt and criticism, all of which can ramp up in the peri- and menopausal years
Understanding how anxiety messes with your performance and how to control it
Motivation, confidence-building and habit setting
Metabolism is simply how your body turns food into energy. Small hormone changes can have a big impact on this process, affecting weight, energy, mood and long-term health. Metabolic changes caused by slower metabolism, muscle loss and changes in how we store fat make us more vulnerable to metabolic diseases.
This is why metabolism is a priority area, which I address through nutrition, supplement and movement plans. Here we cut through all the noise and get to the nutrition advice that optimises midlife, body composition and gut health. Simple techniques to support weight loss, alongside game changer recipes can also be shared. This is not all depressing stuff; food is to be enjoyed, and you might be surprised at how you can have your cake and eat it!
A Little More About Me and My Work
Blending evidence-based strategies with decades of hands-on experience and the human touch of personalised coaching
I bring a unique blend of academic expertise and lived experience to my work. Alongside my career as a Senior Lecturer - with published research on perfectionism and wellbeing informing my approach - I also draw from my background as a track athlete and personal trainer. As a mum of three boys, navigating menopause while balancing family, career, and unwell parents has given me deep, firsthand insight into the pressures women face. The lifestyle strategies I share are not just theories - I’ve tested them, lived them, and rely on them every day. Now, I’m committed to building a community of women ready to unleash their mental and physical strength as they embrace the next chapter of life. Join me, and let’s make this part of your story.
Podcasts and Publications
Dr Jane McKay: Tackling the destruction of perfectionism: The Learning Development Podcast. Available at: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3lyULvLGTVu5hSLi7dvpEX
Dr Jane McKay: That's so interesting... Episode 1. What's so wrong about perfectionism? Interview with Dr Chee Wee Tan. Available at: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RXyWQL37uSk
Dr Jane McKay: How perfectionism can improve the student learning experience. GCU Common Good Podcast. Available at How perfectionism can improve …–GCU Common Good Podcast – Apple Podcasts
McKay, J., Williams, K. & Shanmugam, S. (2026). Self-understanding and connection as the foundation to supporting student perfectionists in a brief educator-led programme. Manuscript under review.
McKay, J., Blackburn., L., Regoczi, D., Williams, K., Shanmugam, S. (2026). Learning in an era of high expectations: Prevalence and experiences of perfectionism at a UK university. Manuscript under review.
Blackburn, L., McKay, J., Regoczi, D., Williams, K., Shanmugam, S. (2026). Learner agency, wellbeing, and equity across diverse student populations: A mixed-methods study at a UK higher education institution. Manuscript under review.
Duncan, C., McKay, J., Tan, C. W., Blackburn, L., & Shanmugam, S. (2026). The inner ally: Self‑compassion and psychological factors critical to student wellbeing and academic success: A cross‑sectional study. Manuscript under review.
Stan, I., Zirar, A., McKay , J., Petrakieva, L., Budhathoki, T., & Otermans, P. (2025). Unveiling higher education students’ experiences of using artificial intelligence: a cross-institutional qualitative study. Journal of Learning Development in Higher Education, (37). https://doi.org/10.47408/jldhe.vi37.1746
McKay, J., Williams, K. & Stewart, J. (2024). You just want a break from the hatred of failure: the lived experience of being a student physiotherapist perfectionist and considerations for educators. Adv in Health Sci Educ 29, 893–918 (2024). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10459-023-10287-y
Bishopp-Martin, S., Canton, U., McKay, J., Psaros, C., Syska, A., & Thomas, S. (2023). Mentoring in learning development. Journal of Learning Development in Higher Education, (29). https://doi.org/10.47408/jldhe.vi29.1132
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